Some Great Date Tips For Guys From A Woman Who Has Been On Some Pathetic Dates

| Tuesday, September 27, 2011
By Eric Mitchell


Dating can be sometimes overbearing. And finding a perfect date can be even more stressed. I feel ghastly when I am going out with someone for the 1st time, and it did not equal up with my expectancies. Then the following couple days go by, contemplating on how to answer his questions as to the reasons why I never called back. Perhaps I am oppressive when judging a man on his first date, but does not that set the standards?

When I say I want to see a movie, I would like to see a movie. Do not get your "man-hopes" riled high, because what is on my mind isn't at all on yours. Of course he lets me know to choose the film, so I pick the best-rated one available. Not at all fooling when I said I would like to watch a film. Don't try and drag me in the back of the theatre, where you think I am just going to kiss you all night. This is a number one turn off. Yes, you'll get me refreshments or maybe popcorn, who is truly going to say no? If you take me to see a flick, then let's just do that, and not distract me or everyone else in the crowd.

Dinner is another tricky subject altogether. My last date and I had 2 different preferences anyway. But since you rented a Ft Myers limo, wherever you take me is absolutely fine. I could find something that sounds good. If all that sounds agreeable to me is indeed salad, you better just hold your tongue. I hate with an enthusiasm those who try and force-feed me. No, I do not want anything else. And no, I do not want anything from your plate. If nagging about my food, or lack there of, is a subject at the table, you will not get a hopeful call back. Anytime.

I'm always open for adventures. Being of the female sex, my activities may not interest most datable men. Very few and far between are interested in the idea of roller-skating and painting nails. Going to a rodeo does sound fun. But if your rodeo includes trashed best guy chums and their wasted girlfriends, go on and count me out. If walking together along the beach's shore is included, then call me. Apart from that, your male posse could keep you from having an awesome time with me.

Perhaps it actually is not the guy's fault. There's a likelihood that I set my standards a bit high. I do not at all find it appealing squandering time with someone I know I will not call them back. I do believe I speak for a lot of girls when I speak my standpoint. It sounds awful, but did not Daddy say there wasn't a boy deserving of my love? And if I'm to prove him wrong, then I sure as heck don't need to be bringing home any person I have reservations about. If he will not make me smile 100% of the time thru the first date, then no, I shouldn't give him a second call.




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